What is a child's psychiatric evaluation for?
An evaluation helps clarify your child's emotions, behavior and current situation. From there, a mental health professional can decide whether your child would benefit from treatment or other support, and what might work best. It also helps sort out whether what you are seeing is related to changes or stress at home or school, or may point to a condition that calls for treatment.
It is not a test your child can fail, and you do not need to have a suspected diagnosis in mind. Parents usually come because something has been hard for a while. Grades may have dropped, mornings have turned into battles, or a teacher has raised a concern. If you are still deciding whether to seek help, our guide to ADHD signs in children may be useful.

What questions will the provider ask?
The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry describes what a comprehensive evaluation frequently covers. Many parents find it helps to think through these topics ahead of time.
- The present problems: what you see, when it began, how often it happens and what makes it better or worse
- Health, illness and treatment, both physical and mental, including current medications
- Your child's development, such as early milestones and temperament
- School: how your child is doing with learning, behavior and friendships
- Family relationships and what has been happening at home
- Parent and family health and mental health history
- Interests, abilities and strengths, which matter as much as the problems
Who talks to whom during an evaluation?
Children often behave differently from one place to another, so a provider needs more than one point of view. This is the usual pattern, and it varies by child, age and clinic.
| Who | What they add |
|---|---|
| Parent or guardian | Developmental and medical history, family history, daily life at home, what has already been tried |
| Your child | How they feel and how they see things, in words that fit their age. Younger children may share less in words, and observation can help. |
| Teacher or school staff | Behavior, learning and friendships at school, usually through written reports, forms or records |
| Pediatrician or other providers | Medical history and past treatment, shared with your permission |
| Other caregivers | Coaches or child care workers can describe how your child acts in other settings |

Will I be in the room, and will my child get to speak?
At DanShalom Behavioral Clinic, a parent or guardian must be present at appointments for patients under 18. A young person also gets room to speak for themselves. In general, providers may want an older child or teen to have some private time, since teens may struggle to share how they feel in front of family, even in supportive families. How that works here, and what would and would not be shared with you, is a good thing to ask us before the visit.
Mental Health America suggests asking any provider to explain what information will stay private and when they would need to share something for safety reasons. Knowing the answer can also help you explain it to your child.
What role does school information play?
School information is often central, particularly when attention or behavior is the concern. Children spend many of their waking hours at school, and a teacher sees them in a setting that a parent does not. The National Institute of Mental Health lists information from the child's school, such as standardized test scores and reports on behavior, capabilities and difficulties, as part of a comprehensive evaluation.
For an ADHD question, this matters even more, because symptoms have to appear in more than one setting. The American Academy of Pediatrics says a provider may want to see report cards, standardized tests and samples of schoolwork. Bring what you already have. Ask us what school information would be helpful for your child, and whether teacher forms are part of the process.
Are parents being judged?
Many parents worry about this. The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry lists the worries parents commonly bring: Am I to blame? Am I silly to worry? Is my child normal? Its guidance is that providers are there to support families and be a partner, not to judge or blame.
Be as open as you can about hard things, including family stress, past treatment and mental health history in relatives. These details can change what a provider recommends. If you do not understand a word or term, ask for an explanation. You should not leave wondering what was said.
What comes out of an evaluation?
By the end, you should understand how the provider sees the problem, explained in terms that you and your child can follow. Sometimes the picture is clear after one visit. A comprehensive evaluation may take more than one, and sometimes more information is needed first, such as school records or a medical check. Our psychiatric evaluation page explains how we share impressions and next steps.
The result may be a diagnosis, such as ADHD, or a different explanation, or no diagnosis at all. Recommendations may include therapy, parent training or support, changes at home or school, or medication. If additional assessment would help, such as psychological or educational testing, ask us. A referral may be needed.
What does this look like at DanShalom Behavioral Clinic?
We see patients ages 5 to 65. You will meet with Victor Onodjacha, MSN, PMHNP-BC, a board-certified psychiatric-mental health nurse practitioner, in person in Sugar Land or by secure video if you are physically in Texas, Idaho, Arizona or Maryland at the time. You complete intake forms in a secure patient portal before the first visit, which lasts about 60 minutes. Follow-ups are about 30 minutes, with the same provider each time.
The next step, if you are ready, is the request form. We check coverage before the first visit, and the insurance page covers plans, self-pay and the sliding scale. Our guide to preparing a child for a first visit covers what to gather and how to explain the visit.
We are not an emergency service. If your child talks about suicide or self-harm, or cannot stay safe, call or text 988, call 911, or go to the nearest emergency department.
Questions patients ask
Will my child be put on medication?
Not automatically. Many mental health conditions are treated without prescription medicines, and medication is one possible option among several. A decision comes only after the evaluation and is made with you. Not every medication can be prescribed at every kind of visit, some may need an office visit, and we explain what applies. See medication management. Ask about the benefits and risks of any option.
Can I say no to a recommendation?
Yes. You can ask questions, ask about other options, and take time to think. A good provider should explain the choices, including the possible benefits and risks of each approach. You may also seek another opinion. If your child already takes a medication, please talk with the prescriber before stopping or changing it, even if you disagree with the plan.
Should my child's other parent come too?
One parent or guardian must be present at appointments for patients under 18. A second caregiver can add useful detail, since children often behave differently with different adults. Let us know who helps make health care decisions for your child, and ask us about any custody or consent questions before the first visit, so that we can tell you what is needed.
Can you complete school forms after the evaluation?
Ask us. Tell us what the school has requested and when you need it, and we can talk about what is possible. We cannot promise particular paperwork in advance. Your child's school can also explain its own process for evaluations and accommodations, such as a 504 Plan or an Individualized Education Program, and what it needs from you.
Can a child's evaluation be done by video?
Often, yes, when the child and parent are physically in Texas, Idaho, Arizona or Maryland during the visit, and a parent or guardian must be present on video too. It needs a private space and a good connection. If an office visit would suit your child better, we can talk about that.
References
- Comprehensive Psychiatric Evaluation (American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry)
- Children and Mental Health: Is This Just a Stage? (National Institute of Mental Health)
- Diagnosing ADHD in Children: Guidelines and Information for Parents (HealthyChildren.org, American Academy of Pediatrics)
- What to do if your child opens up about their mental health (Mental Health America)
- Teen Mental Health Support 101: Types of Treatment and How to Get Help (HealthyChildren.org, American Academy of Pediatrics)
Reviewed by Victor Onodjacha, MSN, PMHNP-BC, . This page is general information, not medical advice or a diagnosis.
